I thought a thought, an interesting thought,
So I put it out into the world.
I nodded my head, and turned away,
And the nastiness unfurled.
Someone else thought a thought about my thought,
And put it out into the world.
They issued a coded call to arms,
And abuse was suddenly hurled.
Hundreds and thousands of comments were shared,
Some measured; some angry and cruel.
The language was varied, the message the same:
I’d broken an unwritten rule.
If I’m to share my thoughts in this world,
They must adhere to the norm.
I must follow the leaders, the kings and queens,
I must worship, obey, conform.
I thought a thought, an interesting thought,
That I was too scared to share.
I kept it inside, where it could hide,
And no-one could see it there.
I kept it inside, and tried to pretend,
That I didn’t really care.
—
I witnessed some pretty awful behaviour on the weekend. I hope I never see anything like it again.
For Lisa x #idratherbeme
Robyna May | the mummy and the minx says
Perfect Em xx
Emily says
Thank you x
Carmen says
This is wonderful. #idratherbeme
Emily says
Thank you so much. Loved your take, too.
Renee Wilson says
Beautiful! I absolutely love this, Em, and Lisa will too x #teamIBOT
Emily says
Thanks, Renee. That’s the main thing.
EssentiallyJess says
Well done Em.
I only heard about all this yesterday. I’ve kept quiet so many times online because of this exact reason; anything that’s not considered ‘normal,’ is wrong, but who decides what normal in the first place?
Denyse Whelan Blogs says
Exactly Jess! xx
Emily says
And there’s always a new normal to try to keep up with. Too exhausting. I’ll just be me.
Hugzilla says
I. fucking. love. you. This is brilliant. So measured, yet so fucking on point.
Emily says
You set off my comment moderator! Fuck yeah! Thanks x
Nicole @ The Builder's Wife says
Perfect, brilliant!! x
Emily says
Thank you x
Claire @ Life on Wallace says
Measured, eloquent and on point. Perfect!
Emily says
Ooh, the trifecta! Thank you so much.
Maxabella says
Absolutely fabulous!
Emily says
Thanks, Bron – and thanks for the initial nudge. x
Deb @ inner compass designs says
Brilliant. Love this Em.
Emily says
Thanks, Deb x
Ingrid @ Fabulous and Fun Life says
Oh dear! I missed the drama but I love this!
Emily says
Well worth missing. Thank you.
Nicole Webb says
Perfection, nothing more need be said.
Emily says
Thank you x
Lydia C. Lee says
Lovely poem. I’ve been off line for so long I’ve obviously missed something….
Emily says
And that’s not a bad thing!
Lauren @ The Thud says
This is wonderful. You’re a real talent, Em xx
Emily says
This means a lot, Lauren. Thank you x
Erika @ Ever-changing Life of a Mum says
I only caught up with what has been going on this morning. So well written Em x
Emily says
Thanks. It’s a lot to take in!
Amy @ HandbagMafia says
Perfect. Just perfect.
Emily says
*blushes* Thank you x
Becky says
Perfect. I actually have welled up, I hope to never see such a thing again either.
Emily says
Oh, wow! Not that I want to make people cry, but I didn’t think it was that powerful. Thank you. Yes – hopefully I’m never inspired to write something like this again.
Dawn says
Well said Em. Xo
Emily says
Thank you x
Sarah @SheWrites says
Beautiful writing as always Em! Nothing more needs to be said.
Emily says
Thanks. And I will say no more about it. x
Sandra Kelly says
Heartfelt. Beautifully shared. Xx
Emily says
Thank you x
Lauren Paris - Gold Coast Mum says
Fabulous Em!
Emily says
Thank you x
Kez @ Awesomely Unprepared says
So sad but true. I wish we were all better than that xxx
Emily says
Wouldn’t it be nice? Human flaws are acceptable; targeted nastiness, not so much. Thank you.
Deborah says
I don’t know the context, but it’s beautiful!
Emily says
Thank you. Glad it still works without context.
Denyse Whelan Blogs says
Where Emily’s words are written, wisdom follows. Thank you for being the person who writes and thinks. Denyse xx
Emily says
You are always too, too kind. Thank you, Denyse.
JF Gibson says
You have such a way with words Em. I’m totally envious. And totally agree with it. I’ve only just caught up with the happenings, glad I missed it really. No one needs that nor deserves that in their life.
Emily says
Oh, you. Stop it. Your talent with words invokes plenty of envy itself! Thank you.
Jo @ You had us at hello says
That made me teary! Beautiful Em xx
Emily says
Thank you. And sorry about the teariness. x
CarLy says
Beautiful x
Emily says
Thank you x
Ness says
You are truly gifted. Love this.
Emily says
Too generous. But thank you. #headexpands #headexplodes
Melinda says
Yep and yep. That stuff was truly frightening and this is really beautiful.
Emily says
I love that beautiful things can come from horrible beginnings. Thank you.
Joy Adan @joyadanwrites says
Beautifully written Em. This is perfect. We can pretend we don’t care… but heavy hearts know the truth.
Emily says
So glad my final point is clear. Is it better to keep things inside? I don’t think so. Our discussions just need to mature. x
Tash @ Gift Grapevine says
Your way with words never ceases to amaze me Em xx
Emily says
Such a lovely thing to say. Thanks x
Natalie @ Our Parallel Connection says
Perfect Em. Love it
Emily says
Thank you x
Tegan says
What a boring place it would be if we were all too scared to share our thoughts. I love this xx
Emily says
YES. We need to be able to let them out into the world.
Michele McDonald says
There seems to be a lot of negativity going around at the moment! Loved the poem and am going to put it up at work.
Thank you Em and wishes for only good comments in the future!!
Michele
Emily says
Thank you! This wasn’t inspired by direct experience, but sometimes witnessing something happen to someone else can hit you almost as hard. x