Two years ago, I had the distinct pleasure of interviewing David Astle.
Name ring a bell? It should. He’s an author (and if you’re not familiar with his work, I suggest you start with Puzzled). He was the ‘dictionary guy’ on quiz show Letters and Numbers (and now that I’ve brought it up, a little note for SBS: please bring back Letters and Numbers!). And he is the curator of my word-wrestling nightmares. Which is a fancy way of saying he compiles the cryptic crosswords for The Age and The Sydney Morning Herald’s Friday publications. Fri-DA, as I like to call it.
Two years ago, I interviewed David for The Shake about his involvement in creating a brand new word. The word? Phub.
To ‘phub’ someone is to interact with your mobile phone, tablet or other electronic device in favour of interacting with that person. It is to snub by electronic device. It’s a phone snub.
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I saw him again recently, and asked him whether it had stuck. He shook his head. Phub was dead. It had never gained traction. It was being ignored. Perhaps it had been phubbed.
Last week, I saw an article that discussed phubbing. And that article was quoting a journal article. Phubbing has made it to the world of academia! It is time to re-embrace phubbing! (Which, ironically, probably means not embracing those around you.)
Now, republished with permission from The Shake, I bring you the interview that once happened. My tenuous claim to word nerd fame. Here is my interview with David Astle. Enjoy.
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Who was involved in the creation of the word ‘phub’? How long was the brainstorming and selection process?
I was invited about a month before the meeting, around April 2012, and had no real clue who was organising the event, or why. Of course, as a word nerd with a childhood dream to create a word, that hardly fazed me.
I made the trip to Sydney Uni on a gloomy Thursday, May 24. The meeting place was the Senate Room of the Great Hall – very Hogwarts in grandeur. There I met about 12 participants, including Sue Butler, the editor of the Macquarie, Kel Richards, a former RN presenter, a young debating champ called Clementine Kind and others. Cameras and lighting crew made up an even 20.
The mission was to invent a word inside a day. The word’s definition was put on a PowerPoint screen by Adrian Mills, the group account director of McCann, the ad agency involved. The definition was:
(n) the act of holding a mobile phone in a social setting of two or more people, and then interacting with that mobile phone and not the people in that setting.
We split into groups of four, where brainstorming began. Our approach was scattergun, jotting things down from phonewalling to e-scaping, from nuthering to frolling. We sat in a circle and percolated possibilities: thumbrage and toxing. Later a group delegate fixed the sheet to the wall and introduced the room to each inkling.
What were the criteria for creating and selecting the word?
Catchiness was one. Was it easy to adopt? Did the word sound like a word, as opposed to a fabrication by committee? And did it sound right? We wanted the word to reflect the habit in a brusque and effective way.
Also, could the word exist in isolation and still be understood? (We were trying to avoid what word nerds call polysemy, where a word could be ambiguous, or carry several meanings.) By the same token, homophones weren’t great either, as the word could be easily muddled.
The other aspect is known as mass saliency. Could the candidate be morphed into noun and adjective and verb and so on. I Xed. It was very Xy, or a little Xish…
What other words made the list, including those culled early and other serious contenders?
We took votes at the opening phase, selecting three words to salvage from each group, leaving us with a dozen candidates for the later elimination rounds. To complete the 12 were words such as igging, bitting, nubbing, phoneslapping and egophoniac.
(Those that hit the floor, never making the shortlist, included notworking (sic), isophoning, i-gnoring, ecoma, phoffing and phonatose.)
What was your personal favourite?
I loved phub (and phubbing) very early in the game. Not just because I was the coiner, but it seemed oven-ready, primed for widespread use. There was the hybrid root of phone + snub, which made the genesis clear to a newcomer. Then there was that semi-rude echo of another four-letter word we know so well, on top of the PH-tradition of other techie treachery, such as phone phreaking from the 1960s, and phishing from the online era.
I was also fond of toxing – that blend of poisoning and texting – and the rude hipness of igging. “Hey honey, stop igging me.”
Do you think ‘phub’ will stick? Have you heard it used in casual conversation?
Phub has already stuck. McCann was shrewd to recognise a vacuum – a universal space that demanded a label. I knew we’d anointed the right baby as both my sisters independently referred to the term only a matter of months later – one quoting an article she’d read in the paper, the other having no idea of its source, as though the word was always there. Little did they know their big brother had played an active role in bringing the word to life.
The sequence that needed to occur, in order for phub to qualify as a legit word, relied on the group’s active dispersal, and yet discretion as well. Trumpeting the backstory was taboo. That would only seem advertorial. Instead, we each unleashed the word through our various channels, including the brilliant Stop Phubbing website, and then sat back, allowing society to decide on the term’s appeal.
A year and a half later, more than 181 countries have cited phub, and several dictionaries are considering the word’s arrival. The time felt right to reveal the conspiracy.
How would you clue ‘phub’ in one of your crosswords? (Or have you already?)
Not yet. That would seem a tad ulterior. But I’ll be tempted soon. As for a clue, what about: Apple’s core centre to misuse smartphone. (That’s P + HUB, if you’re not a cryptic kind of person.)
What other technological/social phenomena do you think are crying out for new words? Care to suggest some?
It staggers me to think that English still lacks a collective word for nephews and nieces. As well as a label that applies to your son- or daughter-in-law’s parents.
Away from the family tree, we need a word for the habit of documenting a moment (with phone camera, or Twitter) rather than simply experiencing the moment.
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Have you heard or used the word phub?
And what words would you like to see introduced to the English language? Any suggestions for a collective word for nephews and nieces, a label for your son- or daughter-in-law’s parents, or the habit of electronically documenting a moment instead of experiencing it?
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Hugzilla says
HOW HAS THIS WORD NOT BEEN IN MY LIFE? This word was MADE for me.
Emily says
As victim or perpetrator?
Amy @ HandbagMafia says
I’ll be honest- I’ve never heard of phubbing (the word, not the action!) but the action itself sure is prevalent! I’m guilty of the odd phub. Pretty sure I phubbed my husband yesterday. Hahaha, that sounds filthy!
Emily says
That’s cool – that was David’s feeling. Phub hadn’t gained traction. Maybe it will now?!
(It does sound dirty!)
Vicki | Style On V says
Yes I heard of this word awhile back. I actually added a little post about it back in august 2013. Have a fabulous day. V x
Emily says
Tracking down that post! Love it! Thanks V
Beth at AlmostPosh.com says
I haven’t heard of phubbing although I do like it. I thought the accepted collective term for nieces and nephews was “niblings” – I can’t remember where I read that, but I use it!
Vicki | Style On V says
Love that ‘Niblings’
Emily says
Hadn’t heard of niblings! So cute.
Vicki @ Boiled Eggs & Soldiers says
Today is the first time that I’ve heard of it but am going to use it, (on my husband tonight as he is a shocker at it!). Thank you for introducing phubbing to me! x
Emily says
A pleasure! Enjoy using the word. (It’s less enjoyable explaining it to everyone every time you use it, but that may be a short-lived thing!)
JF Gibson says
Mmm, can’t say I’ve heard of the word, but unfortunately have seen it in action!
Emily says
Many a time!
EssentiallyJess says
I’m going to use this word this week! That is my goal!
Also he raises a good point about those other (lack of) words. Especially taking a photo. Photogramming maybe?
Emily says
Ooh, I like photogramming. My bid is “living i-cariously”.
Sanch @ Living my Imperfect Life says
Never heard of phub or phubbing before but being a word nerd, I love it! 🙂 Oh and I loved Letters and Numbers. I even bought the books. Only downside was that I could only watch it if I had a day off.
Emily says
I adored Letters and Numbers. I was on the show – if you have all the books, you can play my episodes!
Jo says
I’ve never hear the word either. But it’s one for my arsenel. I think it sounds particularly useful in case someone is upsetting you.
Emily says
I like the idea of saying the word, then not explaining when people ask what you mean. Let their minds wander!
Colleen B says
This phenomenon deserves a name! I am afraid I have done this to people as well…it puts up a very effective wall. In my defense, there are some people I don’t really want to connect with…maybe they feel the same about me. We could be phubbing each other!:)
Emily says
Agreed – like on public transport. If it wasn’t our phones, it would be books or magazines.
Malinda @mybrownpaperpackages says
I must be living under a rock, I’ve never heard of phub before :/
Emily says
That was David’s feeling – that it hadn’t caught on. It was everywhere a few years ago, then faded. And now, maybe, it’s back?!
Natalie @OurParallelConnection says
I will admit I have not heard it but IT IS SO TRUE. It happens all the time, every day of the week , in every country in the world. Sadly though I think it is such common practise people think it is normal.
Emily says
Yes, it is certainly common. And in some cases, accepted and celebrated – like at blogging conferences! Expected, even!
Lara at This Charming Mum says
Phub is an awesome word. I love neologisms – it’s a good reminder that language is evolving and you don’t have to be a pedant about it in polite company. Editing is a different story of course! And pedantry can be fun. Good interview 🙂
Emily says
Love your view! Yes, proofreading is the only place for a red pen. Neologising is so much fun – if you enjoy it, you should check out David’s blog. He had a little neologising comp a few weeks back.
Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit says
This is great!
And the word Phub is a must! That is definitely going to be my word for next week. Will find a way to use it every day for 7 days … FUN!
Emily says
It wouldn’t be too difficult to use around here! OOPS.
Melissa {Suger} says
Phub, nice. Glad to have a word for it. Been on both sides of the fence (not maliciously, but it happens). I think love the ones you’re with. It took me a long time to get used to putting my blog and work stuff aside and just being present. That said, I love a good blogger hangout where everyone talks AND is on their phone. The best. Haha.
Emily says
Not maliciously – that’s true. I wonder if, after phub catches on (if it does), a more malicious form of the word will develop naturally. And me too! Chat chat, TWEET, chat chat, SELFIE WITH BLOGGERS, chat chat INSTAGRAM.
Grace says
What a cool word! I’m definitely using it. Mr Surfer will be all like, “Whaaaa???” and I’ll text him what it means 🙂
Emily says
YES. Hahaha! I love that! Texting the word to each other. Perfect.